“I think when you go from a super single to ‘Love Is Blind,’ to the opposite, there’s kind of a whiplash associated with it,” Taylor Krause said about tying the knot with Garrett Josemans
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Garrett Josemans and Taylor Krause
Love is blind Taylor Krause and Garrett Josemans reflect on the most challenging moment in their relationship.
The couple appeared Nick Vial‘S The Viall filespodcast on November 13 to discuss married life, exactly one year after they tied the knot. Reflecting on the changes they made to be together, they revealed that deciding where to live was the one topic that initially felt “incompatible.”
“That was our biggest struggle this summer: working through that together and understanding that we still love each other, we want to make this work, but these are real feelings that we feel and that we’re trying to understand and convey at the same time,” explained Garrett out.
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“I think this is something that a lot of couples deal with,” Taylor noted. “I know Love is blind trying to have people in the same city and avoid having problems regionally, because I think that happens for a lot of people Bachelor people – that they’re not in the same city and then you very quickly move on to this big relationship.
“That’s hard,” she added. “It was very difficult for Garrett to tell me, (but) he had to be honest so we could figure out what a compromise looked like and how we could move forward together.”
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During the show, fans only get to see a snippet of the conversations the couples have, and Taylor shared that she and Garrett had been back and forth for weeks about whether they would move to San Diego, where she hoped to be (closer) . to her family), or stay on the East Coast as Garrett wanted.
“There were a lot of sleepless nights and tears, and it wasn’t easy,” she remembers. “Fortunately, I also found a fantastic therapist who I have been working with for the past six months. And I think at some point you can really decide when you get married: is it for me, or is this about a “we”? It’s really hard to describe.”
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Taylor Krause and Garrett Josemans
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The quick transition, which left them with less than a month before deciding whether to get married, left Taylor and Garrett with more to figure out than most married couples, she explained. Ultimately, they decided to move to Washington DC, which was a compromise despite Taylor’s initial disappointment.
“I think I’m going from super single to Love is blind to the opposite, there’s kind of a whiplash to it,” she told Garrett, “I know I gave you my non-negotiables when I was going through it, and it really hurt when you were honest with me, but I would much rather that you had been honest with me than that, let’s say three years from now, you panicked and you kept this up and we never really got a chance to figure it out together.
“Because I don’t want to get super deep, but you can’t predict what happens with life,” she continued. ‘You just want to find a partner you can have fun with. After grieving it and talking it out with you and having a lot of difficult conversations and feelings, I think we got to the other side. And we are certainly still working on it.”
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